Tuesday, August 9, 2016

USA 2016

Madsen family in USA, 2016, was again a success!

It was really fun to see how much more Benjamin understood this year.  A few days before we left, he kept saying "Mig Airplane..os alle sammen Airplane"  (Me airplane, all of us airplane).  As it turns out, Benjamin woke up with a fever the day we were leaving.  It seemed to get beter throughout the morning, but as we were waiting for our flight (which was delayed an hour or so), his fever got really high again and he was quite limp and whiny.  Luckily we could buy some medicine at the airport and that started working at one point during the first flight and he was just quite calm and happy.  Now that we needed 4 seats and there are only 3 in a row, we chose to have window seats for both the boys.  So on the longer flight we were across the aisle from each other. Søren had Benjamin, and he was so happy to play with the sticker book he got on the plane after he was clearly feeling better, he also slept some.  Silas LOVED that he could watch as much TV as he wanted.  I tried to get him to sleep a few times, but he was just so excited and I let him watch TV.  He fell asleep about 15 minutes before we landed. (aka. 2 am Danish time).

We spent the weekend at my Moms house, where the boys slept okay getting up between 3:30 and then 5am those days.  (With some awake time during the night as well)  We spent the days just hanging out and seeing the new area my Mom had moved to.  Sunday afternoon we went to visit my Dad and then to our friends Holly and Dave's house.

Some changes this year were that my Mom has moved to a beautiful townhome in White Bear Lake, and therefore had we decided that we would take up our friends offer on being able to stay with them at their home in Medina,,,just west of the cities.  Holly and Dave have 2 boys Zach and Adam, ages 4 and 2 (just months difference from our boys).

We spent the 4th of July with them and their friends and also went to the Delano Parade again this year.  The following week was filled with lots of shopping, playing and swimming.  My Mom unfortunately had some health issues and was at the hospital, so we also visited her there.  We spent one day with Julie and Josh and their kids celebrating their daughters 2nd birthday, and that was Benjamins last crabby day of the trip.  (He was really crabby the first 5 days, just whiney and wanting to be carried, falling over in tantrums, etc).  But something clicked in him after 5 days, and it was so much fun to see how much he enjoyed meeting new people and doing new things.  He really improved his language, and it seemed everyday he was saying a bunch of new things.  During the first 2 weeks, I was actually sick with a sinus infection and ear infection, so that was fit frustrating that I couldn't enjoy vacation 100%...after the 2 weeks I went to the Dr. and got some penicillin and was better after 2 days.  What a relief.












Playground fun! The boys really learned to play together in a new way.  It was so much fun to watch.  It probably helped that Benjamin just wanted to do everything that Silas did! 

Eating breakfast with Zach and Adam

Pool time with the Hedrix family

Beach fun with Westin


Mary's 15 year high school reunion!

Mary's 15 year high school reunion!



Friday night Pizza and Movie Night

Anyway, back to our adventures.  We took our little Madsen vacation up north in MN this year.  We spent the first 2 days in Duluth, where we stayed at a kid friendly hotel with a waterpark.  On the drive up there was a crazy storm and it rained so hard it was so difficult to see the road.  We made it to Duluth, but with the downpour decided to change plans and find an inside activity.  We ended up at the train museum where we could look into trains and also take a train ride.  It was a nice time, the boys really enjoyed playing with the different Brio train areas that were set up, but Søren and I thought the 1.5 hour train ride was a little dull.  We got settled in at our hotel and after dinner went down to the waterpartk.  It was so much fun to have such big boys that we could do something after dinner!  While Søren put Benjamin to bed in our hotel room, Silas and I hung out at the arcade and won some tickets.  He thought that was so fun and it brought back a lot of vacation memories for me! The next day we hung out at the water park, took naps and then headed to downtown Duluth where we walked around Canal Park, playing in Lake Superior, looking in some shops, having ice cream, seeing the  Lift Bridge go up and down many times and a nice dinner at "Grandmas."   The hotel stay went well, Benjamin woke up quite early, so I took a 5:30am walk with him to the lake while the others could sleep.

Evening arcade time...I like being the big brother

5:30 am walk to the lake
Brio trains!










Lake Superior

Lift Bridge





On Wednesday morning we went up north another hour to some of the State Parks where we camped and hiked.  The boys napped in the car and we went up to Tettagouche State Park first.  There was an awesome swimming hole and the boys loved to splash around and build rock sculptures/buildings.  Then we could go to our campground and get set up.  We had a cart in campground where you could pack all your things in a big wheel barrow thing, and then walk to your a little more deserted campsite.  It was a great spot we got, close enough to the car and bathrooms but still looked like our own little spot.  It had a few shade trees, which turned out to be good not for shade but as a rain shelter, as we had some rain both evenings right while we were eating.   The boys took it well and just enjoyed hanging out, but our hotdogs buns got pretty soggy!  The next days consisted of lots of hikes and rocks.  We took a good hike from our campsite up to the lighthouse and on the way back Silas got to choose the route and found these cool steps that went right down to the lake.  It gave a beautiful view of the lighthouse and another opportunity to buiild rock figures.  We also went to Gooseberry and saw the beautiful waterfalls there.  Silas and Søren had some good bonding time as they took an hour long hike  together as I sat on a bench with a sleeping Benjamin.  Friday we headed back to the cities, but not before one more trip to the lake!







Split Rock Lighthouse








Our Campsite



Lots of fun in a a pack n play...in a tent!
 That weekend involved 2 family get togethers.  It was fun to see family members from both sides of my family and get a chance to chat.  The Brown family get together was held in Forest Lake, and there was a chance to swim and take a boat ride, which we enjoyed a lot.







Boat ride



The next weeks went quickly and consisted of lots of swimming, in the pool at "our" house, and a waterpark...luckily as the weather was really warm a few day...95 degrees F or 35 degrees C! Søren and I celebrated our anniversary with a nice dinner out and some alone time shopping.  We also had a longer date where my Mom watched the boys so we could go to Sonshine Music Festival and hear some great Christian bands.  Our favorite was For King and Country....they were awesome and gave a great show.  We got rained on quite a bit when we first got to the festival and spent the 2nd concert in the car, but then it cleared up and we had a beautiful evening together under a blue sky!

Some other highlights were going to see the new Vikings Stadium for an open house.  It is really beautiful and amazing!  Silas was sick in the morning so he stayed home with my Mom so he could regain energy to see  the Lion King in the afternoon.  He ended up feeling better and going to the musical, but he wasn't quite fresh.  It was a bit dissapointing, but we were glad he got to see it after all.

The last days were spent relaxing, packing, playgrounds, seeing a movie (Finding Dory) and saying goodbye to friends a family.  Another great vacation!

September due dates! Mo and I!
Hockey!
8 year anniversaray


Friend reunion and pool party

Dress up at the Kozlaks

Dress up at the Kozlaks


Sonshine Date





Lion King!




Vikings Stadium!







Finding Dory...look at those seats!



Last night with and at the Kozlaks!






Some professional pictures we had taken in Minnesota!









Sunday, June 26, 2016

Strawberries

The other day I was able to pick up Silas early from preschool and we went and picked strawberries. Silas was so excited about it and had so much fun trying to find the perfect ones! Every once and awhile he would hold a strawberry up and exclaim "wow Mommy, look at this beautiful one!"

We picked 3kg and after 5 days we had eaten them all! Yummy and refreshing snack!


Friday, April 22, 2016

Silas almost 5!

Silas has been saying quite humorous things for as long as we can remember,  but lately they have taken a new dimension.  His newest hobby is to build things with Lego and then explain to us why he chose to put each and every piece exactly where he put it.  He also adds a lot of "play features", which to him means, pieces that can move / or that you can actually do something with instead of just a building.  We are impressed by his creativity in his creations, but just as much in his explanations.

Just tonight he was explaining one of his creations as Søren and I were still sitting at the dinner table.  All of a sudden he has to pee and the whole way to the bathroom and while he is peeing, he continues to explain and explain!!

Here is a little video to really give the idea of what it is!





Haunstrup zoo

The spring holiday season of long weekends has arrived.  The first....Big pray day...an old Danish tradition.  We used the day to have quality family time.  We visited Hauntrup Zoo in the gorgeous spring weather.  Benjamin really enjoyed seeing all the animals and he would say "HIIII" to every new animal we would visit and also "BYE BYE---insert animal name---See you later" 

Silas also enjoyed the animals, but really loved playing on Denmarks biggest Jumping Pad and getting to used the powered payloader.  He also enjoyed that he got to choose which table we should sit at for lunch and it was by the boats!!!

Our volounteer and friend Monica from Italy came with us and it was a very lovely day!







Monday, February 29, 2016

Benjamin 2 years



2 years has flown by and Benjamin is changing so much every day these days.  He talks non-stop and is starting to be able to tell us what he wants and needs.  He is a very happy boy who loves to laugh and play.  He has also become quite a teaser and will do or say things to make us laugh...then he will laugh right afterwards too!  We love watching him grow and learn new things.  His smile and laughter is contagious and he has all three of us laughing multiple times a day.

Benjamin continues to enjoy daycare with Margit.  He can say all of his "friends" names, but his favorite is by far "Isak".   Sometimes he just goes around saying/yelling "Isak, Margit"  "Isak, Margit"  Isak and his family also go to our church, and he loudly pronounces Isak's name every time we see him...also during the quiet times!

Benjamin has been to a lot of Dr. appointments this past year.  Both for his hips and for his ears.  At the moment everything is looking just fine.  The hip specialist has said that things are on track but that things aren't 100% yet, so we will go back for a follow up check in October.  As for his ears, he is on his 3rd set of tubes and these ones have held for almost 3 months, so we are hoping that it continues.  He hasn't seemed to have any infections since the last set was put in, so we are encouraged.

As for sleeping, well our dear Benjamin is now sleeping through the night, without little parties.  He sleeps around 7:15 pm and insists on getting up around 5:15-5:45am.  We think it is still a bit early, but we try to remind ourselves that at least we aren't up with a crying boy for 2 hours every night anymore.  At 5:15 he is completely awake and no amount of coaxing can get him to sleep again.  Luckily he usually in a great mood and will play happily and/or watch some cartoons on our lap.  We take turns with the early morning shift and it seems to work for now.

Here is a list of some of the other things that Benjamin is doing right now.

1) He calls himself two different names "Benmin" (Benmean) and "Benji"

2) He calls Silas "Sitah"

3) He loves to help set the table.  Even when Søren is gone, he has to set a place setting for him.  He absolutely insists on it

4) Says many words in both languages...right after each other.  F. eks.  "bord, tableee"

5) He laughs when I pray the Our Father with him at night time.  He laughs through the whole thing.

6) He needs to be rocked to sleep for his afternoon naps in his carriage.  We used to be able to just walk away from him, but now he wants us to gently rock him.  It only ever takes max 5 minutes, so we are just doing it.

7) Silas and Benjamin are beginning to play more together.  They like to chase each other, play with the train, build Lego towers, scream back and forth at each other, and run after balls in the hallway.  They can both really bother each other, but now there are also times when they are having fun together and it is so amazing to watch!

8) He yells EVERYTHING.  There are very few words he ever says in just a regular voice.  Most things have to be yelled.  The loudest word though is "NEJ" and is often directed at Silas.

9) He can thread beads on a shoelace and also enjoys puzzles and sorting boxes.

10) He likes to climb on our Bobles (foam figures that you can make towers, etc out of) and then jump off of them onto the beanbag.

11) LOVES to play with his wooden train.  It is the first word he says when he wakes up in the morning and the first word he says when he gets home in the afternoon!

12) Enjoys taking all the DVDs out of the drawer and then sitting inside the drawer in his "boat"

13) He can with a fork and spoon by himself , for every meal.

14) If you ask him a question he responds with so much energy and excitement "ME!!".  Also if he is telling you something he wants and you guess what it is, he will squeal excitedly "YEAH" in response.   Ex:  B: Water   M: You want some water?  B: YEAH!!!!!

15) He is sure to tell you if he thinks something is fun.  He yells "Sjovt, fun"!!  And then "mere, mere"

16) He enjoys singing songs with movements and can't get enough saying "mere, mere" before the song is even done

17) TV and "IPam" are big hits.  They don't usually last more than 10-15 minutes, but he is quite persistent.  He is now getting better at accepting a "no".  But just recently he would through tantrums, and he had to start hiding the "IPam".

So those are some of the things I can think of right now.  Here are some pictures of this adorable, fun loving and independent boy!










PS: Here are some pictures from Benjamin's 2 year birthday party.  His Danish family and Godparents were there and we had a nice day with cake, games and lasagne!